what if you were me

Who We Are

Ever think about changing something about yourself?  You want to look your best – you want to feel your best.  And, with good reason.  You are more confident.  You get treated better.

Every edge counts.

Or maybe, you’re really happy with yourself.  Good for you!!  But, you don’t know whether you should wear your tee shirt with the cool band logo or the button down shirt you bought at Banana Republic.

Which tie goes best with this damn suit and shirt??

Do these pants make my ass look fat?

Or you’re the woman who’s not sure whether she looks better with her hair straight or permed.

Or perhaps a little more serious work is under consideration.  Should I get that nose job?  Do I need that facelift?

What do you do?  How do you decide?  You don’t want to make the wrong move . . .  You could ask your friends.  They should tell you, but they won’t.  And the professionals will sell you whatever they can.

Who can you trust?

Perfect strangers, that’s who.

Welcome to What If You Were Me.com, a Self-Help/Advice Website dedicated to you!  With its Web debut in March 2013, WhatIfYouWereMe.com can help you make the tough decisions.

So, sign on, become a member, and get ready to hear the truth.  It may be ugly, it may hurt, but you know what they say, “No Pain, No Gain.”  Learn what others think.  Learn what kind of real first impression you make.


What We Do

Our mission is simple: to help you help yourself.  You can participate in two ways:  get advice and/or give advice.


How It Works

At WhatIfYouWereMe.com, we give you the opportunity to seek the advice of others.  Or, if you have no burning issues that require resolution, you can choose to share your wisdom. 

Need advice?  Simply log on, post a picture or two and pose your question.  You’re then just a click away from receiving a tabulated response to your inquiry.  Ask the world, or a self-selected, sub-part of it.  Get comments.  Open the floor to debate.  Or, receive your responses in private.  Either way, get the information you need to make your decision.

If you wish to dispense advice, log on and search for an area of interest.  Find those deeply in need of your wisdom, and let them know what you think!

Of course, WhatIfYouWereMe.com understands the importance of privacy and integrity. All communication between members on WhatIfYouWereMe.com happens through an "anonymous" email network. The names and contact information of all our members are kept confidential.

And to help ensure the integrity of our community, no profanity, vulgarity, pornography, foul/abusive language, or bullying will be tolerated.